FINANCES, FINANCES, FINANCES… This is such a sensitive topic especially in the African-American community ..one that requires delicate language in order to not ruffle any feathers right? WRONG! We need to talk about finances because it seems to be in issue amongst not only the marital community but ESPECIALLY within the dating community. Somewhere down…… Continue reading I ain’t said she a gold digger but she ain’t f*cking with no broke…….
598 Reasons why every woman has checked that man’s phone – Part 1 The birth of a Private Investigator
Ok maybe not 598 reasons but a goooooood 2-3 reasons why every woman has checked a man’s phone……Now before I get stoned for presumably being a nosey bitch…….hear me out. Nowadays trust, transparency and honesty are some of the hardest values to match with another person. We give so much ourselves only to end up…… Continue reading 598 Reasons why every woman has checked that man’s phone – Part 1 The birth of a Private Investigator
That first Disagreement…TELLS ALL
I’ve always said as a rule of thumb: you never TRULY know a person until you’ve had your first disagreement…..think about that……. Sounds simple right? listen to this: everything is amazing when things are going smoothly but a relationship’s strength and the test of two individual’s cohesiveness isn’t truly tested until adversity hits. Why?…… Continue reading That first Disagreement…TELLS ALL
The Peace in Security….
I find myself puzzled , in a place I sworn to never be in once again. The doubts, the questioning, the uncertainty of it all….the crazy part is that I’ve walked this bumpy road countless times and yet I STILL expect a different view. We’ve all been in the “situationships”, the “Fuckships” the “lets go…… Continue reading The Peace in Security….
The 5 PONs: Pillars of Need in any Successful Relationship
Have you ever been in a relationship or situationship where you unequivocally felt your needs being unfulfilled? What did you do? Did you stay in hopes that things will change for the dire better or did you leave after the countless attempts of verbalizing your unhappiness? We’ve all been in some form of relationship where…… Continue reading The 5 PONs: Pillars of Need in any Successful Relationship
If Communication really is key….
Then why is it one of the powerful, the most soothing, the most fulfilling YET the most hardest means of interaction with another human being? Communication is defined as ” The sharing of ideas and feelings . We communicate daily in so many ways including verbal and non-verbal but how EFFECTIVELY we communicate is the…… Continue reading If Communication really is key….
The “Conditions” of UNcondtional Love
The obvious contradiction of the title sparks the thought of “How could it be unconditional love when there are conditions ? The majority of those wanting to be in a healthy and strong relationship have the goal of finding a love that is unconditional, never wavering throughout any storm or adversity….but do we truly understand…… Continue reading The “Conditions” of UNcondtional Love
Are we giving too much too soon??
Show of hands “How many ladies have been that amazing, ride or die UNOFFICIAL girlfriend only to never make it to Mrs. Offical? (waits for congregational MMPPPH) Lets jump right on into these murky waters shall we? You meet a man, you go on dates, he’s sending you those super cute text messages “Hey…… Continue reading Are we giving too much too soon??
Is your hair keeping you single?
Ok ladies wait don’t stone me just yet , I know hair is a touchy subject for some but just hear me out, I swear I have a point. I recently posted the picture above of a young lady with two distinct looks: in photo A she is wearing a weave , colored in what…… Continue reading Is your hair keeping you single?
The Sophisticated Hussy 